Collaborative divorce isn’t the right solution for everyone. Some couples just aren’t suited to the more freeform structure which comes along with collaborative divorce, and such couples are usually better served by mediation or litigation.

Couples who Can’t Effectively Communicate 

Collaborative divorce that is successful hinges on the couple’s ability to effectively communicate with one another. Once the two spouses can no longer communicate in a respectful, constructive way, it can become difficult for them to reach an agreement regarding the issues in their divorce.

Couples Who Have a Record of Domestic Violence

When one spouse has a record of physically abusing the other, collaborative divorce may be difficult. Even if the abuse occurred a long time ago, lingering resentment, fear, and an imbalance of power make it difficult for the spouses to work together in a productive manner that serves both of their needs.

Couples Without Trust in One Another

Similar to spouses who can’t effectively communicate, spouses who have lost trust in the other may not be suited to collaborative divorce. The benefit of working with a Collaborative Divorce Team is that there are mental health professionals to work with the couple to allow effective communication to occur, financial neutrals who will examine assets and be able to ensure that both spouses understand the financial situation and make recommendations and projections for the future.

Work with a Skilled Collaborative Team

Collaborative divorce isn’t for everyone. If you would like to learn more about whether collaborative divorce is right for you, schedule a consultation with one of our professionals today to learn more information regarding your legal options and rights. Collaborative Divorce Professionals, Inc. is not a law firm. We are a not-for-profit group of legal, financial and mental health professionals trained in the Collaborative law process.

Another option would be to attend a Divorce Options® Workshop which will explain all divorce options and their methods available to you and your spouse.  The workshops are free and are held via zoom.  Please visit Divorce Options Florida to find a date that works for you and to register.

 

Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental health or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.